tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1902720767087735387.post2744371558246597699..comments2023-11-03T04:53:50.302-04:00Comments on mandeefofandee.: friendshipMandeeFoFandeehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16208696427064959985noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1902720767087735387.post-38406034533446225152010-11-05T08:58:09.974-04:002010-11-05T08:58:09.974-04:00such a bummer. i'm dealing with a similar situ...such a bummer. i'm dealing with a similar situation and it hurts, and it sucks, but it also has to happen.<br /> <br />i know that you're a great friend (even having talks with me, an interwebz friend, about how to be there for her). friendships should generally be 50/50. of course, there are times when you may need more, or you may need to give more, but you should never consistently be giving more than you are receiving. (this statement rings true with husbands too, heyoo)<br /><br />good for you for recognizing this and making a difficult decision. <br /><br />oh, and you smell like poopsauce.Sarahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04538065090178029057noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1902720767087735387.post-40101410156816742312010-11-04T18:53:28.222-04:002010-11-04T18:53:28.222-04:00Good for you! You have to do what is best for you ...Good for you! You have to do what is best for you and sometimes it's hard and sometimes it's not something you like but in the end, it's what is right. <br /><br />Hopefully your old friend will find her true self but in the meantime, all you should really worry about is continuing to grow into being a better person for yourself.Ashleyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11667426576734956954noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1902720767087735387.post-36812277569360635582010-11-04T16:13:49.288-04:002010-11-04T16:13:49.288-04:00hello! i know i'm not technically a blogspot m...hello! i know i'm not technically a blogspot member any longer and i'm rarely on here anymore, which is why i have seldom commented your posts, but i felt compelled to do so to this one for obvious reasons.<br /><br />i am really, really glad that you are in a better place about your situation, and finally see that you deserve to surround yourself with people who love you, who won't forsake you, or take you for granted in such a way that it hurts your soul. you know how i've felt about that for a really long time, and it was and always has been important for me to see you get treated the way you should be by the people you call your friends. we all have our faults and shortcomings, and none of us are perfect friends, but despite all of that, we all deserve to be treated with dignity and respect at ALL times by the people fortunate enough to be friends. like i've always said, you shouldn't have to watch your back or watch what's being said behind your back because your true friends are too busy having your back to stab you in it.<br /><br />i hope you find yourself to be more at peace with your decisions regarding your friendships as the time goes on, and i hope that your existing friendships prove to truly be something of worth and not just the same old song and dance.<br /><br />you deserve to be happy, and you deserve friends who will reciprocate the kind of love you show to them =]Reneéhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10650313593768674671noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1902720767087735387.post-85142773127086488102010-11-04T15:22:36.096-04:002010-11-04T15:22:36.096-04:00love love LOVE this post. i think it's good th...love love LOVE this post. i think it's good that your readers get a little window into the deep side you have as well. i'm glad and lucky to call you a friend and although parts of this entire situation just down right suck, at least something good came from it all, as well as 'learning experiences'. you are an amazing friend and you truly care about the people in your life and don't ever let anyone tell you different! loooovve love!kaleyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17249270222587552497noreply@blogger.com